It’s always a good idea to be totally open to your wife. Let her know your plans, movements, visions, and thinking. This will help her to connect well with you and get along with you as your wife and Mother of the house. Despite the facts that you should be totally open to your wife, there are 11 secrets that you should never reveal to your Wife. Let me open your eyes to them here:
1) BAD THINGS YOUR MOTHER SAID ABOUT HER:
Maybe before you married her or after your wedding, your Parents might have told you some things they don’t like about your wife for one reason or the other. You have to be careful the way you talk to her about what they said. You may correct her without telling her who said what or say it in such a way that she will not get hurt by their words.
2) BAD THINGS YOUR FAMILY SAID ABOUT HER:
Like your Parents, your siblings, Uncles, Aunties etc might have said some negative things about your wife in the past, handle this with care, lest you create a battle that may outlive you between them.
3) YOUR TERRIFYING DREAMS:
It is very easy for a woman to wake her husband up to tell him about her nightmares and terrible dreams. It’s not bad for a woman to say this to her husband, but it is not always good for a man to share terrible dreams with his wife that may not allow her to sleep.You can tell her to pray or pray together concerning the dreams but avoid giving her the graphic details, lest you scare her.
4) HOW YOUR FRIENDS REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER:
Your friends might say unkind words about her. If you relay it the way they presented it; your house may become a no-go area for such friend.
5) YOUR DIRTY FEELINGS ABOUT HER:
Avoid speaking out your negative thought about her when you fight If you utter all that is in your mind in time of conflict, you will hurt your wife greatly and destroy your home
6) GIRLS THAT ARE EYEING YOU:
Once in a while, you may notice some ladies who are really after you and see you as their source of “crush” despite the fact that you are married. You don’t just go ahead to tell your wife about this, for a lady to show interest in you may not necessarily mean she is after you. So, be careful. If you tell your wife about it, she may not handle It rightly and can begin to suspect you and fight the innocent lady.
7) HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER MUM:
Her Mum may not be behaving very well by your standard, but that is how she’s been behaving and raised the damsel that you married. So, it will be bad to tell your Wife that her Mother or Father is not well behaved.
8) HOW WHAT PEOPLE SAID REALLY HURTS YOU:
Some people will say something that will hurt you greatly. Please, avoid saying how it hurts shedding tears in the process. If you end up forgiven the person your wife may never forgive somebody that makes her husband cries.
9) HOW WHAT PEOPLE DID GREATLY Hurt YOU:
Just like the case above, people will do something that hurts you but must avoid sensationalizing it to your wife. Please, always downplay your hurt so as to make it easy for your wife to forgive people.
10) NAMES OF GIRLS YOU HAD SLEPT WITH:
It will be totally wrong to show her the list of those you slept with before you met your wife. She doesn’t need that information, they are your Ex, please move on
11) PAST SEXUAL ENJOYMENT:
Likewise, you need not tell her what you enjoy in other ladies to motivate her to perform better in the bedroom, that will be very wrong.