Speed Dating offers one of the most genuine ways to meet single people who are ready and matured enough to start a life long relationship. It is a sure way to see and do your personal assessment on the individual, also Speed Dating gives you the option of meeting several single guys in one night which is better than a blind because during a speed date, you do not have to stress or pressure yourself to want to unduly impress your date which gives you the liberty and leisure being relaxed as you check out your options very well.
Speed dating is an ideal way to meet real people, but one can never be too careful with issues that relate to things that affect our emotions and feelings.
Here I have come up with 10 Advice that you must give attention before embarking on Speed Dating.
- Speed Dating is a great way to mingle and find true Love
Be mentally and emotionally prepared before ever embarking on Speed Dating because people who claim that Speed Dating is for desperate singles who can’t find or approach members of the opposite sex is untrue. People are busy and speed dating gives the unique opportunity to meet several single guys in one night, so have an open mind that you are doing what is right.
- Speed Dating is the breeding place for matchmaking
Speed Dating is purposeful in that the ultimate aim is to match make singles from different backgrounds having a common interest in starting a real relationship. Before embarking on a speed date just know that you are in search for your likely better half.
- Participants brought their A-game
Do not easily get carried away by the likely flashy looks and the sophistication of ladies and gentlemen you will see. Everyone has come prepared to create the right impression so be focused and be ready to read between the lines for consistency not like you are a detective but just be relaxed and enjoy the moments.
- Get ready to see the unexpected
It is only true that in an atmosphere where so many single guys are under one roof it is highly expected to interact with persons having very weird mannerism and characters, so set your emotions right so if it is tested negatively, you won’t be perturbed by it.
- Get ready to respond to some really funny questions
You will respond to some questions that might get you angry or get frustrated at some weird replies during your speed dating session.
- Prepare your questions
You should know the qualities of what you want from your dream partner, so prepare the choice of questions that will lead you to choose the right person or persons you would want to go out on a real date.
- Be Polished and Polite
Being polished here refers to your overall presentation which includes the way you are dressed, speak, smile, laugh, etc do not be too serious and concentrated on your dates but be accommodating because with that you will be patient enough to give a fair hearing to all your dates.
- Leave a sense of uncertainty with your dates
Greet and shake hands very politely with your dates and don’t be in a hurry to exchange contacts or show too much interest in any person you really want to meet and see again. Just be calm and take your notes Properly.
- Enjoy the conversation and listen very well
Avoid topics that would make you argue and also reduce as much as possible discussions about your ex. Just participate and enjoy the flow of the conversation.
- Be Real and be confident
In as much as you understand that several persons came with their A-game please try all you can to be real and act confident when you interact with your date. Don’t be so rigid or be too soft, just stay in a relaxed and open-minded mood and let your date know your opinion any subject of discussing and don’t be forceful about it.